I write this assuming what I say won’t be judged, much. Most of the people who read this blog of mine are open minded people but sometimes there’s a level where that open-minded ends for example while I don’t judge homosexuals I can’t stand it if two guys made out in front of me. I don’t mind a girl and boy did it or even girl and girl but boy and boy gives me a headache and makes me feel like puking!
So I’m left wondering if that makes me homophobic or just gay phobic. Does it make me a hypocrite for accepting one side of homosexuality and being repulsed by the other? And anyway I find chi cs making out really sexy but if I meet a truly lesbian person would I be as accepting? (up until this point I’ve only ever met bisexual girls and, I think, one lesbian). Also as a Christian and a person I think homosexuality is wrong but I still accept it and try not to judge. Is that a bad thing? Thinking that its wrong?
Also there’s this whole thing of asexuality that I just learnt about the other day. I’ve always assumed everyone would be able to feel some sort of sexual attraction. I find it strange that someone(well here I mean mostly dudes) can feel nothing(sexually) when confronted with a sexy girl. But then again I can totally accept it(more than homosexuality). And I’m wondering if its because it doesn’t really affect me(physiologically) or that I truly accept it because there have been times in my life that I’ve felt devoid of any sexual feelings.
These are questions that I ask myself all the time when considering sexuality. I think I can sum this up into a single question: Am I really open minded or do I just force myself to accept? Sound off in the comments about what you think, if you have answers to my question(s), whether you ask yourself the same questions or about what you think. I think I’ll talk about heterosexuality next. As always, peace!!