Faithfulness - a myth?

I’ve been meaning to do this post for a while now but really haven’t had the time or energy to do it. Immediately after Barcamp Nairobi I promptly feel sick! Yeah that’s right, I reached home and my flu symptoms went through the roof! I got a fever and headache so I took the next two days off!(Turns out it was a week, this post has been sitting in drafts for some time) So I’m here today back at work (and bored already).

This post is (was?) supposed to be a continuation from my last post and was supposed to have been done last week. I went out with my friends that weekend after Safaricom7s. We went obviously to Westy where we promptly got frozen at every joint we went to! All were asking for ID which we had but after they checked them they’d say 26 and over for dudes! Note: The honeys we were with weren’t frozen once! WTF?! What the point of having an ID if you can’t even get in to clubs? I always thought that we were given ID specially to let us into clubs and buy alcohol! Stupid idiots! Anyway we managed to sneak into Changes which was CROWDED!!! Everywhere was! It was a great time out!

But that’s not what this post is about today post is about something that happened earlier. While we waited at my boy’s house we regaled each other with stories of our past sexual exploits. And of course this story came up because the main actor in it was there (it was his house). Anyway as we went on talking the dude, I called him Tee last time, right? Well he told us that his girlfriend had found out he wasn’t being faithful.

He met this girl and she was hot!! But apparently her most defining feature is her massive ass! Also she works out so she’s rather lean. Anyway it turns out this girl is best friends with his girlfriend’s cousin. Who of course went and told her cousin and she called my boy, Tee, crying and stuff. He told me he has no idea where he got the game to convince her that he was sorry and that he’d never do anything to hurt her again. He said something like he hadn’t, until that point, been taking the relationship seriously but promised to do so from then on.

Of course as his best friends we knew better and we all put down bets saying how long he’d last on monogamy lane. I first said 2 months, another said 2 weeks and I revised mine to one week. Guess who was right? Well one week later he was seen with a another girl coming from his house. Of course it can’t be confirmed whether anything happened but…

Well that brings me to today’s question. What’s with people, while I only know guys I mean both sexes, having this inability to remain faithful? Is faithfulness really a myth? I mean it really can’t be that hard, can it? I never been in a tempting situation because, well, I’ve never been in a relationship so I always wonder what would happen if it did happen. Would I hold up? Judging from my friends its impossible.

Anyway, my thoughts on this? I personally think it’s disgusting that people can’t remain faithful to their chosen partners. Why choose then? Stay single and do your shit! Why put your partner through that torture? But, hey, what do I know? More educated/experienced people(and anyone else) are welcome sound off in the comments about what you think because this is confusing. Peace!