I’ve said severally here that I’m someone who really enjoys the company of girls infact I can as far as saying that I have more girl than boy friends. I’m not entirely sure why that is. I’m by far more selective of my guy friends. I think it’s an ego thing I get from the company of girls.
So in all my interactions I’ve become aware of one thing. If I hang out with a girl for long enough I’ll eventually, at some time, develop feelings for the girl. I only came to this realization recently and I’ve been blown away by it. It explains a lot that I didn’t previously understand. I doubt if girls feel the same though but I can’t be sure.
With this realization has come insight into my platonic relationships with my girl friends. If I don’t want to develop feelings for these girl I shouldn’t hang out with the for prolonged periods of time. But that can’t work because despite what feelings beyond friendship I feel for these girls I genuinely enjoy spending time with these girls. So what’s to be done.
Suppression. I mean I need to become aware of these feelings before they lead me to do something stupid, like making a move that will ruin a friendship with extreme awkwardness and embarrassment. Realising these feelings I should make an active effort not to let them, and their attendant thoughts, overwhelm my conscience. This seems like the best course of action, of course I’m welcome to suggestions so sound off in the comments.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t make advances on your girl friends I’m just giving what to me seems a viable way to avoid ruining your friendships with girls. I’ll leave you with some advice that a good girl friend of mine gave my while in school “If you think you may wanna hit that you’d better persue that, making your intentions clear from the begin than starting out pretending to be friends then trying to get into a relationship!!!”Peace!!